Question from Kate M,
First of all I just want to say that i like your blog and how your effort talk about love and relationship. And congratulations on giving us a new section discussing bout life. I was about to suggest you for that.Sorry for the long talk but i want to ask you a question.more like im asking for your views and opinion.its nothing related to love or relationship.i have problems with my life.i always feel that my life is empty.like i dont know what to look up for.im currently working in a management group..although im always busy with work,i do feel empty most of the time.when that happens i let my anger out to my boyfriend. I know im not supposed to do that,but i cant help it.what do u think i should do?im thinking of getting a hobby but im afraid that ill stress myself out with more work.
Need your opinion on this.thank you and keep up the great work.
My answer,
Hi Kate. Thanks for dropping me a question on my email. Im glad that you like the new life section I introduced lately. Certainly its one of my favourite topics to blog about.
About your problem,I wouldnt address it as a ‘problem’ actually. But I do believe what you need is not some magical cure but just as simple as ‘taking a break’
It appears to me that you get caught up with your routine and you need to give your body and mind a good rest. My suggestion is to go on a holiday. But if you can’t do that,here are a few suggestions(what I can think of right now):
- Spend time with your family. Maybe have a dinner together and catch up with your siblings. By the way, family is the best place for you to share your problems with.
- If you dont have the luxury of time,why not go for a foot massage during your lunch time or after work? A quick ‘getaway’ like that can freshen you up.
- Getting a hobby can also have the same effect. Ask yourself what is it that one thing you love doing and put some time to actually make it happen. Maybe its painting, maybe it’s having a private picnic with your boyfriend at the beach during the weekends.
- Sit down with your boyfriend and discuss on what to do next for your dating activities. Go out from the normal routine of dinner and movies. Create an activity that you can spend time doing together.
But saying all that,you have to remember one thing. Enjoy your break and leave your work at your workplace. No point if you can spend one week at the Bahamas but your mind is still stuck at your office.
One more thing,cheer up,life is always hard and youre already on the ride.Why not enjoy the journey along the way? You only get one ticket.
November 21st, 2009 → 7:30 am @ AidilFS
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